Esalen Retreats: What to Expect and How to Prepare

Thinking about visiting Esalen in Big Sur? Good choice if you want deep workshops, hands-on bodywork, and a wild coast view. Esalen mixes personal growth classes, massage and bodywork sessions, plus time to sit by the cliffs. This page helps you know what happens there, how to pick the right workshop, and practical steps to make the trip smooth.

What happens at an Esalen workshop?

Workshops vary a lot — from meditation and mindfulness to movement, psychotherapy, and somatic work like Esalen massage. Most programs last a weekend or a week. Days usually start with morning practices (yoga, breathwork), move into group sessions, and leave afternoons free for bodywork or quiet time. Expect a mix of talking, guided exercises, paired work, and experiential practices that ask you to try things in the moment.

Hands-on sessions often happen in small groups or one-on-one labs. If you want massage or bodywork, look for workshops labeled "touch," "bodywork," or "Esalen massage." These sessions focus on long, flowing strokes and listening to the body rather than aggressive techniques. If you prefer quieter options, choose meditation, writing, or nature-based workshops.

Practical tips for planning your visit

Book early. Esalen has limited space and popular workshops sell out fast. Decide if you want residential lodging (on-site) or a day visit. On-site stays include meals and access to the baths and common areas — handy if you want the full retreat vibe.

Travel logistics: the drive along Highway 1 is part of the experience but can be slow. Nearest big airports are San Jose (SJC) and Monterey (MRY); both require a scenic drive. Bring layered clothes — coastal weather changes fast. Pack a swimsuit and towel for the hot tubs, a notebook, and simple clothes for movement classes.

Mind the code of conduct. Esalen values consent and respectful touch. If a workshop includes partner work or touch, instructors will explain boundaries; speak up if anything feels off. Also, communal meals and shared spaces mean being ready for modest group living: quiet hours, shared bathroom spaces in some lodgings, and a slower pace than a hotel.

Money and extras: workshops cost vary. Residential stays include meals; day rates usually do not. Bring cash or card for a small shop, gratuities, or optional private sessions if you want one-on-one bodywork with a practitioner.

Want to make the most of it? Arrive with a clear intention — even a short phrase like “relax my shoulders” helps instructors and yourself. Leave room in your schedule for silence, walks on the cliffs, and naps. The place works best when you slow down and try the practices fully.

If you’re curious about a specific Esalen-style workshop, check our post "Unlocking the Power of Esalen: Soulful Retreats for True Wellness" for a closer look at programs, daily rhythms, and what past visitors report. Ready to book? Start with dates, pick residential or day, and prepare to trade rush for presence on the edge of the Pacific.

Discover the Healing Sanctuary of Esalen Institute

Discover the Healing Sanctuary of Esalen Institute

Esalen Institute, nestled on the stunning cliffs of Big Sur, California, is renowned for its holistic approach to personal development and healing. With a history steeped in alternative education, Esalen offers a unique blend of workshops, natural hot springs, and breathtaking landscapes. Visitors come to explore new dimensions of wellness, engage in profound personal growth experiences, and reconnect with nature. Whether indulging in a transformative workshop or simply soaking up the serene atmosphere, Esalen provides a haven for rejuvenation and self-discovery.